Just OK

One day at a time.

I've so much time on my hands, suddenly.

Unable to focus though; as much as my mind spins around in circles so do I physically circle my apartment (living room to the kitchen to bathroom to bedroom and back), as well as scrolling through social media and the news sites, and reading the books I was so contentedly ploughing through just over a week ago. That was last week and in another world.

Now they, the books and most other things, too, seem unreal, and out of place. And, like many things before now, quite simply irrelevant.

Unable to focus and while I see, at least if I squint my eyes, that this time as a gift so as to get things, I can't get my sorry ass and mind to seat themselves at my writing 

Got to walk for an hour on Kommetjie beach at sunset yesterday, to again breathe in deeply the ocean and fresh air, the exhilaration of the southern hemisphere ozone.

To, also, pretend that everything was just ok.

Tonight it's chilly, wintry and the South-Easter is raging, not unlike when everything was just ok.

Self-love in the time of the virus

It's the quietest I've seen the Sea Point promenade, on Wednesday afternoon, a mere day after the City of Cape Town had closed down most public amenities because of The Plague.

The last time I experienced the public swimming pool empty, closed was during The Drought of 2017/18.

I'd decided to take the MyCiti bus from Woodstock at 4pm to Queens Beach, at the end of the 105 Sea Point route.

So as to get outdoors and to deeply breathe in the reek of the icy and plankton-rich Atlantic Ocean.

Not to mention the luxury of being able to see - unhindered by buildings, humans (except for the odd tanker or Robben Island on the horizon) - The Ocean.

To feel unconstrained by the city, knowing that I'm on its very edge; it's that definite line found almost only in ports, not in landlocked and seemingly endless cities like Johannesburg.

To bask, also, in the autumnal sunshine.

Especially as no one knows yet if the city, if the country, will be going into lockdown anytime soon; my guess is that it's likely.

I am, thankfully, rising again to the sunbeam-filled surface from the tentacles of the mental health issues that have been dragging me deeper and deeper into dark depths.

This while having my joie de vivre excruciatingly squeezed out of me, not unlike toothpaste from a tube.

Dark and grim days.

Was increasingly difficult to motivate leaving my bed, never mind being in contact with friends, nor posting a single pic on Instagram for example; street photography used to be an endless joy. 

The noose tightens so gradually that you're not aware of it, just as the temperature of the water in the pot is turned up so slowly that before you know your once lively, chirpy frog is cooked.

A visit to a Jungian psychiatrist for an hour on Monday, 2 March and an hour later my updated meds bought, swallowed, and down my throat.

That a mere chemical imbalance in my brain can so easily unhinge life.

Three weeks later and life is dramatically altered. I give thanks.

(And cannot even begin to imagine what it must be like to be homeless with the triple burden of being on the streets, hungry, and disabled by depression and unable to treat it.)

Looking closely at the photo to the left, taken on the same walk, at Three Anchor Bay - where the suburbs of Sea Point, Green Point and Mouille Point merge - you'll see a  homeless man with his trolley burdened by all life's possessions, pushed into the shallow water.

Doing what I don't know. 

Self-love and a healing process, like me?

Current

I've many places across the city that I visit, regularly, so as to match a mood I may or may not be experiencing. Normally (whatever that is) it's a place/space wherein I seek privacy and to enjoy the silence of my own company.  It's called recharging batteries. My challenge is that as I get older those baterries (of mine) require more charging than, when like a mobile device, I was 'new'.

Tumultuous

This is the image that has been persistently presticked to the wall of my mind this last week.

It's the sight from my writing table at home and across Woodstock of the South-Easter waterfalling metric tons of cloud over Table Mountain to the far right of the pic, and over Devil's Peak larger than life - in the left half.

It's also symbolic of my emotional state the last one and a half months of 2020; perhaps I should not have been in bed and asleep by 21h45 on New Year's Eve?

However, another name for the South-Easter is the Cape Doctor; I'm (mostly) the eternal optimist.

One word? Tumultuous.

Timorous or bold?

I'm not at all surprised about long ago it is since I've written here, it's more like a gut-wrenching punch to my guts. So much so that I - initially - think a string of posts must have been lost, somehow deleted, I'm deeply consternated. Then I come to my senses.
Has been a bleak time.
Not even a single photo nor mention of Swaziland, Hanover, Berlin nor England. Fuck.
Listening: hey Google, play Annie Lennox on Spotify / thanks Google Nest.
Is this what it's come to, while others are terrified indoors and hiding from the plague while the death count mounts.
I bought a new bed yesterday, a proper adult one, and it arrived this morning. I'm not sure what to do with it. It's been just short of seven years of sleeping on a battered, extremely well-worn kingsize futon on my bedroom floor that ex-friends very kindly gifted me when I arrived in Woodstock mired in debt and on the very bones of my sorry ass.
Reading a Kindle version of Artemis Cooper's Patrick Leigh Fermor biography, 'An Adventure'; I've just completed the last of the paperback trilogy of his travels across Europe when he set out on foot in the 1930s to walk from the Hook of Holland to Constantinople. The first one I bought at the Book Lounge in 2017. Then I bought 'Between the Woods and the Water' at the cosy Waterstones in Petersfield in December 2018 before, finally, as a Christmas gift to myself, the third volume - 'The Broken Road' - at the same Waterstones this past December.
One paragraph in his biography struck a chord earlier today: "The pleasures of Paris at night were also becoming dangerously addictive. He had always resented going to bed, and revelled in the smoky world of tarts and nightclubs, all-night cafes, seedy bars and chance encounters." Other than the resenting going to bed part, that sums how I have been for most of my life, up until the last year and a half. I have shut down swathes of my life and crawled back into a shell that was last so prominent when I was growing up, that ended just before my moon began wondrously waxing. It's well past - well in my sex-orientated mind at least (it's a long and complicated story, that has enthralled many a therapist) -  full moon and I live in the perpetual zombie/living-dead notion that it's waning big time.
I have to end this self-isolation, but my relationship with God and my return to Catholicism are also intricately would up in my self-imposed status quo. 
Then, not much later, today, and totally related, the following also stopped me in my tracks, caused a sharp intake of breath:

The way we are living,
timorous or bold,
will have been our life.

- Seamus Heaney (great Irish poet and Nobel laureate!)

Fuck. Fuck. Fuck.

(I need to do travel much more, but right outside of my comfort zone; or as my artist friend Harem strongly recommends: I need to live as if I'm starring in my own movie.)